Parenting with Purpose

Why We Choose Places Over Presents

We still do some gifts—usually something meaningful, useful, or imaginative—but in our home, the real celebration is the experience itself. The biggest gift we give our kids isn’t something wrapped in a box—it’s the gift of going somewhere new, together.

We call it “Places over Presents.”

It’s not about grand vacations or luxury trips. It’s about choosing to make memories over collecting stuff. Whether it’s a weekend getaway, a special outing, or traveling to another country like we are now, the true gift is the time, the togetherness, and the shared wonder of discovering something new.

When we look back, it’s never the toy that gets remembered—it’s the ice cream on the beach, the giggles from the backseat on a road trip, or the awe in their eyes as they take in something they’ve never seen before.

This tradition also gives our kids the gift of perspective. Travel opens their hearts and minds to new cultures, new people, and new ways of life. It teaches flexibility, gratitude, and curiosity. And honestly? It teaches us too.

We still love a thoughtful present here and there—but the kind of joy that comes from shared experience is the kind that lingers. It becomes a story we retell, a memory we carry, and a part of who we are.

And that, to us, is the kind of gift that keeps on giving.

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