This morning, I caught a moment that stopped me in my tracks—Lucy, stepstool in place, reaching into the fridge to grab the milk all on her own. No help needed. No “Momma, can you…?” Just confidence, independence, and quiet capability.
It was such a simple thing. But it whispered something deeper:
She’s growing.
It’s what we want, right? We nurture, we teach, we model—and little by little, they don’t need us as much. And while our hearts leap with pride, they also ache a little too. Because what used to be a two-person task now only needs one. What once required our hands is now done with their own.
But here’s the quiet beauty of these moments:
It means we’re doing something right.
It means our love is giving her roots and wings.
It means she’s secure enough to try.
And yes, it’s bittersweet. Because there’s no fanfare when they do something on their own for the first time. No big milestone marker. Just a flash of independence tucked into an ordinary morning—and your mama heart, catching its breath.
She’s still little.
She still needs me.
But less and less in the way she used to… and more and more in new, deeper ways—with her questions, her confidence, her growing spirit.
So I snapped the photo.
Not just to remember what she did…
But to remember how it made me feel.
Because this is what glowing and growing looks like.
And I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
Published by Lindsey
Hi, I’m Lindsey—wife, homeschooling mom, animal lover, and cappuccino enthusiast with a heart full of stories and a deep love for teaching and learning.
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I started Raising Light to share our journey of parenting with purpose.
As a former teacher, wildlife rehabilitator, Realtor, and dog trainer turned full-time mom, I’ve walked an unexpected and beautiful path that led me to home education and a deeper faith.
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My daughter, Lucy, is the light of my life—and the inspiration behind this blog.
Her name literally means “light,” and I believe that every child carries their own unique glow. I don’t believe she’s “gifted”—I believe she’s growing and glowing because she’s loved, encouraged, and supported.
And I believe your child can thrive in the same way.
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I know what it’s like to struggle with learning.
I grew up with dyslexia, diagnosed in second grade, and for years I felt like I just couldn’t measure up.
But through grit, grace, and one remarkable professor who finally saw me—I not only overcame it, but became a passionate educator.
Now I use that experience to help guide my daughter, and hopefully, other parents too.
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This space is where I share our learning journey, parenting reflections, spiritual walk, and the tools and truths that have made all the difference.
My prayer is that Raising Light will encourage you, equip you, and remind you that you’re not alone.
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We’re not here to be perfect.
We’re here to grow—and let our light shine.
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Welcome to our story. I’m so glad you’re here.
With love,
Lindsey
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