Yesterday I picked Lucy up from her Critter Barn camp, and the first thing she said—before even buckling her seatbelt—was, “Can we please have a playdate with my new friend?”
I smiled and asked what any mom would:
“What’s your friend’s name?”
She looked at me, shrugged both shoulders high with a sheepish grin, and said, “I don’t know!”
No embarrassment. No hesitation. Just joy.
Because to Lucy, knowing someone’s heart is far more important than knowing their name.
She had connected. She had played. She had laughed and learned beside someone who felt kind and good. And that was enough.
And honestly? I think she might be onto something.
How often do we—as adults—ask all the surface-level questions first?
What’s your name? What do you do? Where are you from?
But kids? They lead with curiosity, empathy, and presence. They get to know the person, not the resume. They notice who shares their snacks, who laughs at their jokes, who listens.
Watching Lucy’s pure-hearted approach reminded me that the best relationships often begin not with an introduction, but with an experience. A shared moment. A spark of something real.
Names can always come later.
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Hi, I’m Lindsey—wife, homeschooling mom, animal lover, and cappuccino enthusiast with a heart full of stories and a deep love for teaching and learning.
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I started Raising Light to share our journey of parenting with purpose.
As a former teacher, wildlife rehabilitator, Realtor, and dog trainer turned full-time mom, I’ve walked an unexpected and beautiful path that led me to home education and a deeper faith.
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My daughter, Lucy, is the light of my life—and the inspiration behind this blog.
Her name literally means “light,” and I believe that every child carries their own unique glow. I don’t believe she’s “gifted”—I believe she’s growing and glowing because she’s loved, encouraged, and supported.
And I believe your child can thrive in the same way.
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I know what it’s like to struggle with learning.
I grew up with dyslexia, diagnosed in second grade, and for years I felt like I just couldn’t measure up.
But through grit, grace, and one remarkable professor who finally saw me—I not only overcame it, but became a passionate educator.
Now I use that experience to help guide my daughter, and hopefully, other parents too.
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This space is where I share our learning journey, parenting reflections, spiritual walk, and the tools and truths that have made all the difference.
My prayer is that Raising Light will encourage you, equip you, and remind you that you’re not alone.
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We’re not here to be perfect.
We’re here to grow—and let our light shine.
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Welcome to our story. I’m so glad you’re here.
With love,
Lindsey
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